The private-school calendar drives the schedule
Custody schedules for Connecticut Gold Coast families typically work around a private-school calendar, not the public-school calendar, and around the particular logistics of boarding-school breaks, summer travel, and college planning. A parenting plan that does not account for those realities will need to be modified within the first year.
Three ways the calendars differ
Private-school calendars in Fairfield County and the New Haven shoreline differ from public-school calendars in three meaningful ways: longer winter and spring breaks, earlier summer release, and additional non-instructional days clustered around faculty meetings and conferences. Parenting plans should reference the actual school calendar by school name, with a default rule for years when the calendar shifts.
Boarding-school schedules
For boarding-school students, the parenting time is structured around long breaks rather than week-on / week-off. Thanksgiving, winter break, March break, and the summer period are typically divided equally, with a default that older students have meaningful input. The plan should also address travel logistics, who books, who pays, and what airport, to avoid disputes each break.
Summer travel and multiple residences
Summer travel in high-asset households often includes a primary family residence (Cape, Vineyard, Nantucket, Hamptons) and international travel. Parenting plans should specify advance-notice requirements for international travel, passport custody, and a procedure for resolving disputed itineraries. A 'right of first refusal' clause for extended travel periods is common.
College planning and educational-support orders
College planning becomes part of the parenting plan in the later years. Connecticut law allows for educational-support orders under C.G.S. § 46b-56c, which can require parents to contribute to higher-education costs up to age twenty-three. The firm drafts plans that align decision-making, school-visit logistics, and financial responsibility well before the application year.
Common questions
- Who decides where a child goes to private school after a Connecticut divorce?
- That is a legal custody question. Where parents share joint legal custody, the school decision is made jointly. When they cannot agree, either parent can ask the court to decide, and the court applies the best interest standard.
- Who pays private school tuition after divorce?
- Private school tuition is not part of the basic child support guidelines calculation. It is typically addressed separately in the agreement or by court order, often allocated in proportion to income or tied to a continuation of the pre-divorce arrangement.
- How do parenting schedules work around a private school calendar?
- Private school calendars carry longer breaks, different vacation weeks, and heavier evening and weekend commitments than public school calendars. A workable schedule is built from the school's actual calendar and activity load rather than a generic template.
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